There is no right or wrong when it comes to choosing first dance songs; you can go for any song as long as the two of you are happy to use it.

You can create your own list of wedding first dance songs or I can help you choose from a comprehensive first dance song list, based on what other couples have opted for.

Either way, knowing a few simple tips can make a great difference in picking up something that would appeal to the two of you, as well as being liked by your guests.

The crucial thing to remember is that the two of you like the song you want to use for your wedding dance. If you do, it makes it a natural choice to go for.

I have come across many couples who went for first dance songs I would never have thought of as first dance song material, let alone suggest them.

For example, one couple went for the theme tune from Baywatch TV series. Everyone loved it and congratulated the couple on their first dance song choice.

Another couple went for When I'm 64 by The Beatles, becasue it was playing when they first met. 

It is simple: If a song means something to you or because of the way it makes you feel, go for it. Does it have to be a popular first dance song? Not at all! The more unique, the better.

There are three factors to consider when selecting a wedding dance song:

• Length of the song (the shorter the better)
• Whether you are using a DJ, band or a sound system (if using a band, ask them to send you a demo of your song)
• The lyrics, that if you consider them important (not all lyrics are fitting for a wedding)

The songs listed are wedding dance songs couples I have taught (2259 as of mid 2026) have chosen to dance to on their wedding day. I have divided them into four groups.

1. Favourite First Dance Songs 

Songs that appear regularly as the main first dance song choice or, at least, strong contenders for many couples.

They tend to be all-time classics, and are considered as the best wedding dance songs.

2. Popular First Dance Songs 

Songs that appear often as the main wedding dance song choice. Some of them may be slow, some are long or their lyrics may not always be ideal for a wedding occasion.

They tend to be prone to music trends during a particular time.

3. Unique First Dance Songs 

Songs that are a one-off choice first dance songs, special to a couple only. Such songs are unique because almost always they will not be chosen by other couples.

4. Top First Dance Songs

These are songs that are a combination of the above three. They have been chosen as a first dance song at least once and can turn into favourite or popular first dance wedding songs. Consider going for any of them because they offer a wide choice of music.

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